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This, That and Everything in Between on Netflix: Jodi Sta. Maria and the mother who came back with a secret

Veronica Loop

A woman who writes television for a living spends her days deciding when families forgive each other, and how quickly. Joanne is good at it. She has built a career and a carefully rebuilt life on that kind of control — on knowing where a story ends and being the one who gets to decide. Then the single plot she never got to finish walks back through her front door, wearing her mother’s face and carrying something she was never told.

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This, That and Everything in Between is a Filipino family drama built entirely around that reversal. Jodi Sta. Maria plays Joanne, a successful TV writer whose ordered world comes apart when her estranged mother, Paz, returns after decades away. Agot Isidro plays Paz, and she does not arrive empty-handed: she brings a secret that reframes everything the daughter believed she had already survived. What follows is a chamber piece more than a saga — two women, one house, and a history neither of them ever managed to close. The film streams on Netflix, in Tagalog, and it does not soften its edges for anyone watching from outside the Philippines.

Cholo Laurel directs from a screenplay he co-wrote with Cody Abad and Shania Sumergido, and the casting is the whole argument. Sta. Maria is one of the most recognizable faces in Philippine television, an actress the domestic audience has watched anchor teleserye after teleserye; her register is warmth, endurance, the woman who holds a household together no matter the cost. Isidro is a performer of exactly the controlled hauteur a role like Paz demands — a mother who returns on her own terms and reveals herself on her own schedule. Putting these two in a confined, confrontational two-hander is a deliberate step away from the sweep the genre is known for and toward its pressure. The screen gets smaller so the stakes can get larger.

They are not alone in the house. Gardo Versoza, Angel Aquino, RK Bagatsing, Ruby Ruiz and Joel Saracho fill out the family and the orbit around it, the relatives and near-relatives who have their own version of what happened and their own stake in whether it stays buried. In a story this compressed, the supporting cast does specific work: they are the witnesses, the ones who chose sides during the missing years, the people whose presence reminds Joanne that an estrangement is never a private matter in a Filipino family — everyone was in the room for it, and everyone remembers a different account.

What the film is actually about sits underneath the reunion. Filipino family melodrama has a long and precise tradition — Anak, Tanging Yaman, Four Sisters and a Wedding — and it has always run on the same engine: the returning relative, the buried secret, the reckoning that follows. Audiences at home know the architecture intimately, which frees the film to play against expectation rather than merely satisfy it. The estrangement here is never only an estrangement. It stands in for something larger and unmistakably national: the decades of separation that are the ordinary condition of Filipino families raised across distance, the parent and child who become strangers to one another one absent year at a time. Joanne’s grievance is private and collective at the same moment, and the film knows it.

That collective weight is not abstract. For a generation of Filipino families, love has been conducted at a distance — money wired home, birthdays attended by phone, a parent who became a monthly voice and an annual visit. A story about a mother who left and a daughter who rebuilt herself in her absence is not a metaphor to that audience; it is a description. The film’s willingness to sit in the discomfort of that arrangement, rather than rush to absolve it, is what separates it from the reassurance the genre often offers. It is asking whether the people who were left behind are obligated to forgive simply because the one who left has finally come home.

Laurel keeps the register tight rather than broad. The drama is built on confrontation and withholding — on what Paz will not say, and on the exact moment the film chooses to let her say it — instead of the emotional crescendos the form has trained its audience to expect. That restraint is the craft signature worth watching for. The single-house confinement is not a budget decision dressed up as style; it is the argument. By trapping the story between two performers and four walls, the film makes silence structural. The pacing is set by information withheld, not by event, and the tension comes from a truth the audience can feel approaching long before it lands.

The reunion, then, is not the resolution. It is the setup. The real subject is what a reconciliation cannot give back, no matter how completely a mother and daughter finally arrive at each other. The years are already spent. The truth, once spoken aloud, cannot be unheard, and it does not restore anything — it only clarifies what the silence had been protecting. This is the harder, more honest version of the family-drama promise, and it is where Sta. Maria and Isidro are asked to do their most exposed work: not the catharsis of forgiveness, but the colder recognition that some distances close and stay closed at the same time.

The more consequential story sits around the film, in how and where it is arriving. This is a Tagalog-language production shelved not for a domestic run followed by a slow export, but for a single worldwide drop. A national emotional idiom — one that Star Cinema and ABS-CBN talent have spent decades refining for a home audience that reads its every gesture — is being pitched to viewers who have never watched a teleserye and may not know a single name in the cast. The bet is that specificity travels: that a story rooted this deeply in the Filipino experience of separated families will read clearly to anyone who has ever measured a relationship by what went unsaid across it.

That bet is the actual industry event. Streaming has spent years proving that non-English drama crosses borders precisely when it is confident enough not to explain itself, when it trusts its own texture instead of sanding it down for a global average. Netflix has been steadily enlarging its Philippine slate, and a title like this one tests the ceiling of it — not an action franchise or a genre hook that sells itself in a thumbnail, but a domestic drama whose power is entirely in performance and restraint. A mother-daughter reckoning needs no translation to land; it needs only to be true to the place it comes from, and this one is unmistakably of the Philippines.

Whether it finds the audience its makers are hoping for is the open commercial question. The open human one is sharper, and the film refuses to answer it directly: whether anything spoken now can close a distance measured in decades, or whether some truths, once told, only change what the silence was hiding — never the fact of the years already gone.

This, That and Everything in Between runs 112 minutes and streams worldwide on Netflix from August 13.

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