Music

Miley Cyrus Mourns Godmother Dolly Parton: ‘I Have an Angel by My Side’

The goddaughter's tribute reads less like a goodbye than a vow — to grieve the way Dolly taught her: feel it, write a song, keep going.
Alice Lange

When Miley Cyrus finally spoke about losing Dolly Parton, she did not reach for the language of a press release. She reached for the language of family. The woman she has always called “Aunt Dolly” was, she wrote, “the purest soul” — and the goddaughter’s public farewell arrived not as a summary of a career but as a set of instructions to herself about how to keep living without her.

“The feeling of losing my Aunt Dolly is beyond what feels right to share,” Cyrus wrote, drawing a line she has rarely drawn in a life lived onstage. “Our most sacred moments were private and they’ll stay there behind the stage, beneath the glamour and between our hearts.” It is a striking thing for one of pop’s most self-documenting stars to say — that the realest part of this bond will never be posted, performed or sold.

Then came the line the world seized on: “I have an angel by my side. I always have.” What gave it weight was the sentence that followed. One of their last conversations, Cyrus said, was about “music and metamorphosis” — and for anyone who has watched these two across three decades, that word is the whole story.

Because Parton was not simply a famous godmother who sent flowers. She was the one constant across every Miley Cyrus the public has argued about. She played “Aunt Dolly” on Hannah Montana when Cyrus was a Disney Channel kid. She stood beside her for “Jolene” when Cyrus was a teenager finding her lower register, and again years later on national stages. And when the Hannah era ended and the tabloids recoiled at the reinvention that followed, Parton’s response was not a lecture. It was a shrug of grace: “I will respect her choices.”

That blessing kept showing up in the work. They co-wrote “Rainbowland.” Parton lent her voice to a reimagined “Wrecking Ball,” the song once treated as evidence of a young star’s derailment, and turned it into a duet between generations. Their most recent recording together arrived only this year. Metamorphosis, in other words, was never Cyrus’s private rebellion. It was the family business, and Parton was its patron saint.

Which is why the most revealing part of the tribute is not the sorrow but the marching order Cyrus hands herself. “Dolly would want me to feel it, write a song about it, and then continue on and be strong,” she wrote. That is not a mourner casting around for comfort. That is an artist repeating a method she was taught — the Parton conviction that even the worst feeling is raw material, and that the only honest answer to loss is to make something out of it.

Cyrus was not alone in the grief. Dionne Warwick, Reba McEntire, Kelly Clarkson and Blake Shelton were among the artists who reached for words in the hours after the news. Parton died Tuesday at age 80 at the Vanderbilt-Ingram Cancer Center in Nashville, after what her representatives called a brief battle with cancer. Her family said she had asked them to share the news themselves.

But it is Cyrus who has been handed the strangest inheritance: not a song, not a duet, but an assignment. “I will always love her and want to make her proud,” she wrote. Somewhere inside that sentence is the next Miley Cyrus record — and the surest sign that Dolly Parton, godmother to the very end, taught her exactly what to do with a broken heart.

Tags: , , , , ,

Discussion

There are 0 comments.